24TH SUNDAY C

THE HEALING POWER OF “SORRY”

24th Sunday

It is so easy to hurt other people by what we do or say. In the story of the prodigal son, the young man, hurt his father deeply when he demanded his inheritance and left home. He hurt his brother when he showed no concern for the family and thought only of himself. In his insensitivity, he certainly hurt his family.

But if it is so easy to hurt others, why is it so difficult to say “sorry”? Many times we are conscious that we caused harm in our environment, and yet we withhold this most important healing word.

Some do not say “sorry” because they think what they did was just all right, that nobody was offended. As long as there is no violent reaction, they will not be bothered to apologize.

Some do not say “sorry” because they are embarrassed to approach others and admit their faults. If we are not shy in doing injurious actions, why are we shy in repairing the wrong we have done?

And there are those who fail to say “sorry” because of pride. Yes, they have wounded others, but that was because they were right!

If we do not say “sorry”, what happens? We leave behind us a trail of suffering that we inflict on people because of our indifference and our self-centeredness. In the end, the harm we do to others will also befall us as we experience the consequences of our actions. Often it is too late before we realize that we must repair the damages that came from our hands.

The prodigal son realized all this when after leaving home, he lost himself in useless pursuits. Finding himself in a helpless and miserable situation, he was hungry. Notice how many times, our hunger for something enlightens us and opens our eyes to reality.

To assuage his hunger for food, for love, for support, he picks himself up and returns to his father. He carries with him one effective weapon: his apology. He practiced it mentally – Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son…

But in the presence of the loving Father, he hasn’t even finished his script and he was already forgiven, accepted and restored. His “I am sorry”, was met with unimaginable mercy and tenderness.

At the start of Mass, we apologize to God as we ask for the forgiveness of sins. He embraces us and loves us as ever before. But after Mass, is there someone you need to meet and to offer your “I’m sorry”? Is there someone suffering from your actions or words waiting to hear this word? Why don’t we all ask the Lord for the grace to heal our world by our humble apologies, our sincere desire for reconciliation, our humble admission of our faults.