EASTER - THIRD SUNDAY C
RENEW YOUR LOVE
Love is an intoxicating word. It
has a natural power to give you a lift, an experience of a “high.” Look how love makes people
excited. It makes teenagers blush
and scream. It makes adults
romantic and sweet. Love is the
key that makes movies earn millions in their first showing day.
But love has another side. It can be intoxicating, but it can also
be toxic! For love can be
manipulated. Love can be twisted.
Love can lead to betrayal. Love
can result in tremendous pain.
Need we cite the many instances
people cried, gone mad, did wrong or died because of love, or rather of wrong
experiences in love? If love were only a word or a feeling, it would be
pristine. But love is more than
text messages or Facebook or Twitter entries. Love flows through concrete
actions.
Jesus showed immense love for his
disciples and his disciples also professed their love and devotion to him. Remember Peter telling Jesus how he
would join him to the cross? And
then on the night of Jesus’ arrest and torture, did he not three times denounce
the Lord?
I imagine how Jesus must have
felt. The one he trusted broke his
heart. The one he loved lied to his face.
The one he nurtured and empowered turned against him. Many of us can identify perfectly with
Jesus as we remember the many times we learned hard lessons from the hands of
people we loved and trusted.
But for God, there is another
aspect of love. Aside from just
being intoxicating and being toxic, love can be transforming. There can and will always be another
chance in love, except for those who have abandoned all hope. This is what the Easter Gospel
illustrates to us. Jesus meets
Peter, the liar, the betrayer, and gives him the opportunity to become his
closest friend again (Jn 21).
Now Peter must prove his trustworthiness
again. Jesus did not stop until
Peter three times said: I love you, Lord.
But this time, words were not enough. Borrowing from Spiderman the movie, we say, “with great love
comes great responsibility.” Now,
“Feed my lambs, feed my sheep.
Show me you have changed.”
Like Peter, have we hurt the
people who invested love and trust on us? Do you want another chance? Then, children and young people,
respect and obey your parents again.
Students, listen and follow your teachers this time. Husbands and wives, learn to forgive
and forget once more. Friends,
accept each others’ weakness. And for those who have betrayed God’s love, continue
to repent and “obey God rather than men” as the first reading tells us (Acts 5).
When love has gone toxic, there
is a chance. It can still be
transformed by acts of sincerity and responsible action. Let us follow Peter’s
example and renew our love for the Lord and for each other.