28th SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME A
HEAR COMES THE BRIDE!
Today weddings are much
simpler than before, when entire villages and even distant relatives
were “expected” to join without formal invitations. Then when
neighbors or relatives fail to show up, the hosts feel slighted. Now
people will hesitate to come uninvited since there is a fixed guest
list that is normally limited to the closest family and friends.
The Gospel today (Mt 22)
portrays the Kingdom of God with the imagery of a lavish, rural, open
banquet of ancient times. The king sends his messengers to fetch his
guests. He feels bad that some cannot come and even resorts to
punishment for their failure to show up. Then he invites just about
anybody he can find. When finally the banquet starts, the king
notices those who are not dressed up for the occasion. These too, he
punishes.
The parable depicts the
resistance of the people to the king's invitation to the feast,
either through non-attendance or through non-preparedness for the
occasion. The wedding is grand, overflowing with food and drink,
complete with opportunities for enjoyment and merriment. But the
questions we can ask are these: Why did the people ignore the
generous feast? Why did some of the guests come unsuitably dressed?
As Catholics, we are
offered the feast of God's Kingdom in our Sunday Eucharist. Every
Mass is God's wedding feast for his Son. The doors of the Kingdom are
flung open and all are invited. But like the parable, we see
Catholics all over the place on Sundays, except in church. Compare
the number of people in our Mass today with the multitudes of
Catholics in malls, shopping centers, gyms, movie theatres and
amusement parks. Truly, a lot of us contentedly carry the name
Catholic without feeling the need to express our faith through prayer
and communal worship.
And then look at the
people inside the church. Many are here because we forced to be here
either by habit or tradition or fear of committing mortal sin, or
because we have been dragged here by spouse, parent, or school
requirement. Like those who are not dressed properly for the king's
banquet, many of those who attend Mass are not properly disposed.
Listen to your thoughts as you go through the Mass: Where will I go
after Mass? What will I eat for lunch? This Mass is taking too long.
I'm bored to death. I just want to go out and text my friend!
While we pray that those
who are not here will one day show up and love the Mass, let us focus
on our reasons and dispositions for being here. May we value the
Eucharist and truly experience it as our weekly encounter with the
Lord in his great feast! Let's party with the Lord!
