30th SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME A
HOW TO LOVE
Today we reflect on the
reply of the Lord Jesus to another “trap” question of the
Pharisees, this time about the greatest commandment in the law. The
Lord gives simply the response – love, one, total donation of love
expressed in two ways: love of God and love of neighbor (Mt 22).
But how do we love? How
should love be shown? Jesus clarifies this when he mentions the
commandment to love God.
Let us reflect on the way
to love the Lord, and through him, our neighbor:
“with all your heart”:
The heart is love's symbol. The heart refers to the center of the
person, from which flows affection and compassion. In the Scriptures,
the heart is not only the deepest core but the totality of the person
himself. Therefore, to love is to be totally involved, from the
center going out. There is only heart, and so love must have only one
focus, direction and object. Christians are commanded to adhere fully
to God, to be faithful to him. With the same fidelity, we must love
our neighbor.
“with all your soul”:
In the time of the Lord, and even today, the soul is recognized as
the life-principle of the body. Without the soul, the body is dead.
Without the soul, the body lies dormant, inactive, and lacking vigor
and force. But when the soul animates the body, life, joy and
expressiveness flow. To love with all our soul is therefore to love
fully. No laziness involved here; no hiding of love. It is like the
experience of falling in love for the first time, and remaining that
way always.
“and with all your
mind”: What we love occupies our minds. Loving God does not only
mean always thinking of God. It means above all, seeking to know the
Lord even more. We cannot love what we do not know. But once we know
and love someone, we seek to become more familiar, more intimate,
more present to the one we love. There is a growth in love, and the
mind helps us in this matter.
In loving, the heart, the
soul and the mind must come together and work as one. Do we love with
all our heart (involved and faithful), with all our soul (alive and
joyous), and with all our mind (seeking and growing)?