26th SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME A
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CHANGE OF MIND
Parents agree that children are
born different from each other. Even twins show their distinct identity early
enough. And so parents know that one kid is respectful and obedient while
another is stubborn and unyeilding. Parents naturally favor the former over the
latter. This typical sibling characters are portrayed well in the parable today
(Mt. 21: 28ff).
The father needs help in the
vineyard. So he orders his two sons to go. The first flatly refuses him. The
second very respectfully (calling him “sir”) obliges. But the initial response
is not the crucial part. It is what happens after that moment that truly
matters.
The son who refused ended up
working in the farm. The son who promised to go did not honor his word. Why the
reversal of intentions? What happened?
There was no explanation given to
the second son’s failure to obey. The reading however says that the first son
had a “change of mind.” Experts say this is not an ordinary change of decision.
Before this, the son experienced disgust and shame for having answered his
father negatively. This feeling made him conquer his own laziness and pride and
to rectify his fault.
In our society today, do we still
believe people can really feel remorse, change their mind and improve their
lives? Or do we permanently label them as incapable of reform? Should bad
people just die in the streets? Should we just condemn the ones we perceive are
bad? And we, are we so good that we truly always obey and honor God?
A famous action star proved
positive for shabu addiction some years back. Even a senator admitted to using
drugs in his teens. There are many stories of people who started wrong but
ended on the right path. May we be like them. May we believe that with grace,
God can heal and correct our stubborness.