25TH SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME C
EARNING TRUST
I have two very special
sampaguita (Philippine jasmine) plants in my garden. One was flourishing,
growing, and blooming with flowers. The other was struggling to live, with
yellowish leaves, stunted growth and not a single bud in sight.
Going on a break I paid someone
to care for the plants. I instructed her to make sure the struggling one at
least makes it until I return and the flourishing one to remain vibrant and
healthy.
On my return I was surprised that
the struggling plant improved a lot, with a little flower bud growing in a
branch. But the flourishing one had all its leaves drooping, falling and some
branches just sort of dried up! Did they change fate?
I wondered what my temporary gardener
did to my plants! Though I paid her, I resolved never to ask her to care for my
plants again. And of course, no chocolates for her from my trip!
The Lord speaks to us of a
special gospel trait! God is looking for people who he can trust. He gives a
parable of someone who has done something terribly wrong but in the end, was
able to make up for his sins by showing kindness to others.
Is there a model of
trustworthiness in this world? How do we become trustworthy?
Jesus is the trustworthy person,
the paragon of one who earned the trust of the heavenly Father.
We become trustworthy by
imitating the Lord in the way he deals with us.
While becoming trustworthy is
treated fleetingly in our gospel, the Letter to the Hebrews speaks more about
how Jesus was found trustworthy.
There it says that Jesus became
all things for us that he did not refuse to embrace us as his brothers and
sisters.
Furthermore, the Lord sacrificed
himself for us, helping us find the way to the Father when we lost our path and
direction. He wanted to become like us, so that he can be merciful to us (read
Heb 2-3).
Because of his love and his
dedication to help others, the Father found Jesus worthy of his trust.
Today’s gospel shows us a man who
initially thought only of himself. In order to save himself, he began to think
of good things for his neighbors. Maybe his intentions were not very pure, but
at least, he was able to straighten himself by showing kindness to others.
For God, then becoming trustworthy
has nothing to do with being reliable in material or financial matters.
It has nothing to do with being
responsible and creative with one’s talents, gifts and skills.
It has nothing to do with loyalty
and fidelity to a promise or commitment.
To become trustworthy is to be
able to embrace our neighbor and to treat them with goodness, patience,
generosity and respect.
Trustworthy is the one who knows
how to care, even to the point of sacrifice to his own self.
Many times we lose God’s trust because
of our self-centeredness. We live for ourselves alone, or we live only for the small
number of people we call family or close friends.
Can we stretch our hearts a
little bit more and start paying attention to others who need our love and
support?
… that neighbor we never greet
… the co-worker we do not
befriend
… the family member we stopped
talking to
… the former friend we try so
hard to forget
… the little people we meet each
day whose names, and whose stories, we don’t care to know
Love covers a multitude of sins –
says St Paul. When we learn to love, God trusts us again, because then, we
become like Jesus, who was always like the Father.
Lord, may I be worthy of your
trust!