THE SOLEMN FEAST OF EPIPHANY C
GIFTS THAT LAST
As Christmas season became
holiday season, the pressure to give gifts intensified. Rich and poor alike
found every excuse to spend, what they have in abundance or what they have been
saving for a long time, just to give something to loved ones and to friends. Sure,
in this financially challenging time, most people have downscaled their gift-giving
by buying simpler and cheaper things. But still gifts are endlessly purchased,
exchanged.. and shelved!
In some countries there are
studies that show that most Christmas gifts are opened but not used, or left
unopened and merely kept together with house items that are merely hoarded and untouched.
In our country, with all the towels, mugs, undershirts, planners, cell phone
case, “kikay” items and kits that change hands at Christmas time, how many are
in fact truly utilized by the recipient? Check your home for last year’s gifts
that lie idle in a cabinet or remember those which you or your kids enjoyed
only briefly and discarded soon after.
Take a look at the gifts the wise
men brought to the Infant Jesus. It may seem really incongruous to offer such
things. Can a baby play with gold? Will he appreciate the scent of incense? Will he drink bitter myrrh as beverage?
The Magi’s material offerings
were tokens of a deeper sentiment, a more profound attitude, a greater meaning. The real
gifts were in the heart of the bearer – homage to the King, reverence for the Priest,
communion with the Savior of the world. The gifts of the Magi, if we look at
them superficially, did not match the status of the newborn, but at a closer
look, these were gifts mean to last, gifts that had far-reaching significance
in their relationship with God and with their neighbors.
What gifts have you given away
this Christmas? Did you plan the most economical spending scheme this year? Or did
you splurge on lavish and expensive gifts? Did you give what was truly dear to
your heart or what was easiest to get on the “sale” section near the cashier?
This feast reminds us that the
Child in Bethlehem does not need material gifts. We too, need more than
trinkets and gadgets. God and our neighbor deserve gifts that last. Before we
say goodbye to another Christmas of our lives, let us ask ourselves if we have
given true honor and praise to God in our prayer and worship. Let us reflect on
how we extended to others the gift of forgiveness and reconciliation, of
acceptance and understanding, of patience and kindness. Did we give ourselves
the gift of gentleness and peace by forgiving ourselves too, and moving on from
our mistakes?
Lord, give us the grace to
remember that gifts are only symbols of what happens in the heart. May our
hearts share the lasting gift of love to all we meet in this season and beyond,
in this new year that slowly unfolds before us. Amen.